Delamar’s Brain Farts

May 11, 2009

The Truth About This Single Girl…

Filed under: Uncategorized — delamar @ 4:24 pm

The truth is, some days, maybe because things have not worked out…maybe because it is taking so long…I doubt if I even have a “happy ever after” of my own..

The truth is, no matter how strong you know you can be, you just want someone to be on your side…maybe not to fight for you but just to be there to hold your hand when you’re done fighting for yourself…

The truth is, sometimes I get so scared at the life ahead of me becuase it is so uncertain I pray to high heavens to open up the earth and swallow me…

The truth is, sometimes this single girl feels like an outsider looking in when I see how happy my friends are with the one they love…

The truth is I sometimes wonder if I have been wrong all along believing and hoping that my turn will come…

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  1. may mga in coupledoms diyan na inggit sa mga singles like us cos di naman sila happy with their significant others.

    meron din in relationships who are happy therein.

    merong singles (like me) na hindi naghahanap and are happy (still, like me).

    meron ding singles na nagye-yearn to be in a relationship.

    whatever category you belong to, single or not, at the end of the day, life swings both ways.

    but, i have to admit, there’s something to admire in people who admit they want men. 🙂

    “i don’t need a man. i want one.” -Ally Mc Beal

    Comment by purple — May 11, 2009 @ 5:08 pm | Reply

    • the truth is…it is not just about having a man like a social requirement. it’s the connection. i’m libran so i live for that. hindi lang halata but i do. i love love. i love how it makes the color in my life brighter. i guess, i have been in love once to know that i want to do it again…this time with the right man. OH, CRUD. guess who feels a tad bit uncomfy…lol. lemme barf now.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:20 pm | Reply

      • OMG! this is sooo true! my best friend is a libran and i know how you feel.

        Comment by sQueakyrose — May 12, 2009 @ 12:27 am

  2. wow…you just managed to write down everything i’ve been feeling the past few weeks…lets drink to that!

    Comment by dixie dynamite — May 11, 2009 @ 5:11 pm | Reply

    • it’s from the heart, man…

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:17 pm | Reply

  3. Hope is the most exciting thing in life. If you honestly believe that love is out there, it will come. And even if it doesn’t come straight away there is still that chance all through your life that it will.

    – Josh Hartnett
    Delle, I know in my heart that you’ll soon meet the one for you, you’re such a pretty and nice woman. Bulag lang ang hindi magfa-fall sa iyo. :))

    Comment by hannah_bananah — May 11, 2009 @ 5:12 pm | Reply

    • awww…emo entry ko sa blog! lol.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:16 pm | Reply

      • It’s ok to be emo, to pour out that long-kept emotions. at least, you’re sharing what you feel to other people and they can relate to you including me.

        Comment by hannah_bananah — May 12, 2009 @ 9:29 am

  4. Delle, need a hug? I’m not a man, nor am i gay man lang, pero *mwahugs* =D

    Comment by astroboyisagirl — May 11, 2009 @ 5:30 pm | Reply

    • hahaha…may disclaimer muna! you’re funny, astro. thanks, btw.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:56 pm | Reply

  5. Hello del, in a fan since my high school days and im now working. Kaya natin yan I can relate to your feelings…. Sometimes it feel you want to give up but still kaya pa…. Thanks to you and chico. . . . . .

    Comment by mark — May 11, 2009 @ 5:31 pm | Reply

  6. I’m happy to be single. Okay na yata ako maging single forever. I just want a baby.. =/

    Comment by Cherry — May 11, 2009 @ 5:31 pm | Reply

    • the power of the spoken word.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:55 pm | Reply

  7. Singlehood should not define you. or your happiness. But at times it feels that way. Believe that things will fall into their proper places in their designated moment. 🙂

    Comment by Hunter Lizie — May 11, 2009 @ 5:35 pm | Reply

    • i’m not saying it does. but people, not just women, need to let feelings run its course and not deny them. acceptance of feelings. not as who you are but just emotions passing by in your daily life. that’s what brain farting is to me. well, in this case…it’s my heart farting. EMO!

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:53 pm | Reply

  8. awwww…. you’re still young (Ate) Delle, darating ka ren dyan. And besides dame naman nagmamahal sayo, no! @_@

    Comment by whoabanana — May 11, 2009 @ 5:39 pm | Reply

  9. ok lng yan ms. delle,chill k lng jan..GOD is molding him pa..;)

    Comment by blackmantra28 — May 11, 2009 @ 5:39 pm | Reply

  10. yeah i think your right delle, our time will come as soon as possible ,, just hold on grabeh nakakarelate talaga ako kasi im one of the single ladies na talaga at the age of 34.

    Comment by dels — May 11, 2009 @ 5:42 pm | Reply

  11. Hello Del! =) funny just watched Shrek 2 (for the nth time) on TV last night. I’ll pray that the fairy godmother visits you soon so you can also have your happy ending. =) tight hugs.

    Comment by sheena — May 11, 2009 @ 5:42 pm | Reply

    • lol.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:50 pm | Reply

  12. Haaaayy.. It’s my birthday today.. and my friends are wishing me a lovelife as well..
    sometimes, I’m okay without a guy..
    sometimes, it hits me blank.. and feel so lonely..

    oh well.. I have a good reason to drink tonight!

    God bless you, Delle!

    Comment by Lenniedoo — May 11, 2009 @ 5:45 pm | Reply

    • happy happy birthday to you! a girl’s gotta feel what a girl’s gotta feel.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 5:49 pm | Reply

      • wow!!! thanks for the greeting Delle!!! (shoot.. feeling close..)

        Comment by Lenniedoo — May 11, 2009 @ 6:05 pm

  13. And I know you’ll believe me when I said, “you’re still young.” Tinawag mo nga yung sarili mong “girl” sa title e. pede namang “woman,” diba? =P love you, Delle!

    Comment by whoabanana — May 11, 2009 @ 5:48 pm | Reply

  14. I’m sure there will be a person out there that is meant for you. Your beauty and brains, I can say that bcoz of the way you talk when I listen to you on the radio…just believe!!!

    Comment by batang_luckyme — May 11, 2009 @ 5:52 pm | Reply

    • just believe. i like that.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 6:33 pm | Reply

  15. girl, ika nga ng song “you are not alone” — may karamay ka, madami pa tayong nagkalat na ladies enjoying singlehood, with plenty of time pa para magkalat ng dilim hahaha j/k!!
    someday…someday, your prince charming will come (sabay hirit ng: gusto mo pakilala kita sa bro ko? ganun eh! lagot ako saking kapatid pag nalamang i’m pimping ’em out)
    on a serious note, don’t go looking for it, let love find you 🙂
    on second note, as if naman helpful ang advice ko, kita na ngang ako rin mismo bokya sa romance department eekkk!

    Comment by Lor — May 11, 2009 @ 6:02 pm | Reply

    • michael jackson is that you??? “you are not alone…i am here with you…”

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 6:32 pm | Reply

      • *grins* uy, pwedeng pa-request ng kay MJ yan sa riot morning rush bukas, around 9 AM onwards? siguro naman sinisipagan na ako by that time haha
        ako, i’m “Miss Jackson, Janet, if you’re nasty” feeling!!
        i-edit ko lang pala, “magkalat ng dilim” — ano falah, “magkalat ng lagim!!” *smacks self* magj-joke lang eh, di pa sapul sa punchline! haha

        keep your chin up, Del, everything comes in God’s good time 🙂

        you’re a beautiful girl, inside and out, bulag lang ang di makakita ng iyong beauty shining through *winks* kaasar lang, kase either the good men are taken, or married, or gays, or playboys, or too old to be your lolo, or too young to be your apo, or celebrities *BIG SIGH*

        ps “sa haba ng comment na ito, may pahabol pa?! read this book by Amy Holman Edelman “Manless in Montclair” kahit yung back cover lang, kakaloka! sa tututs lang, i’m so tempted to do what the main character did there, yung email announcement eeeekk!!”

        Comment by Lor — May 12, 2009 @ 10:07 am

  16. I so feel you! I even got teary eyed while reading this blog entry. Maybe it’s the hormones reacting. Haha! I recently attended a friend’s wedding where i’m the bridesmaid, guess what? I got depressed… Oh well, i guess all we have is hope… that someday our turn will come 😦

    Comment by arenjey — May 11, 2009 @ 6:03 pm | Reply

    • yeah, i get that too. we host weddings ni chico. and there are weddings where the couples emanate love. as in. you can almost feel the love in the air. that’s when you wish so strongly it was your turn too.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 6:31 pm | Reply

  17. Yeah. Its something that I also want. If I dont get it, Ill still be happy but there is a nagging feeling of… what if. What if you had the chance and you were just foolish enough to let it go. Or blind enough not to have noticed. I guess in the end, im more scared of having regrets.

    Comment by ajienaissant — May 11, 2009 @ 6:15 pm | Reply

    • true. regrets are the worst, in my book. that’s why, i have never edited my loving capacity. give it all you got.

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 6:29 pm | Reply

  18. amen to this…
    hay…
    sigh…

    Comment by annevdns — May 11, 2009 @ 6:21 pm | Reply

    • da ba??? we feel like that sometimes… sigh…

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 6:27 pm | Reply

  19. Del… What happened to putting out an order for the right partner in life to the cosmos and just firmly believe that he is on his way?

    Comment by allan — May 11, 2009 @ 6:22 pm | Reply

    • some days are better than others, i guess. and today, that’s what my brain farted. smells like emo ‘no?

      Comment by delamar — May 11, 2009 @ 6:26 pm | Reply

      • Did you ever read The Secret?
        I certain that you must have…

        When your thoughts, feelings and actions align…

        Comment by allan — May 12, 2009 @ 10:28 am

  20. hi delle! you know, i am happily married and have 2 lovable daughters but i believe with all my heart that if i were single, i would be just as happy too. it may sound cliche but there is truth in the saying that the grass is always greener on the other side. that’s just me though. if you feel that you would be at your happiest if you are in “coupleville”, i wish that you would find your way there soon.

    Comment by carmine — May 11, 2009 @ 6:30 pm | Reply

  21. delle,

    such is the life of the single individual…

    there are times that i feel so in despair due to my NGSB status.

    Comment by jp manahan — May 11, 2009 @ 6:31 pm | Reply

  22. I’m single too and I was the maid of honor to my beloved youngest sister’s wedding last Sat. and as expected my patience to stay sociable to people was tested. Umulan ng jokes that are half-meant, jokes that didn’t really mean to hurt me but did.

    tapos, sa church, the priest mentioned so much about marriage (syempre kasal eh) and then, staying single. according to st. Paul, there are people who are meant to stay alone and some people are better off like that (single). it’s a no-no to pressure someone to get hitched because it’s not the only possible way to become happy and fulfilled in life. So… ayun, after the wedding ceremonies, I was back to being the maid of honor. Pero, okay lang. Because the truth is, i don’t really care if I was the maid of honor, for my sister. I know it meant a lot that I did a should’ve been a bestfriend’s job. her request mattered more than any other people’s sidecomments because not only we are family, but because i love my sister.

    (tisyu, tisyu!)

    Comment by Aiz — May 11, 2009 @ 6:31 pm | Reply

  23. Hi Delle! Lam mo ganyan din ang drama ko before I had a BF. So si tadhana, ni-reverse psychology ko. Sabi ko, hindi ko kailangan ng lalaki. Kailangan ko ng publisher at editor (international) to motivate my writing. Ano nangyari? Yan, binigay sa kin si Hubby. Ngayon, due na ang first baby namin sa July. Pero ang libro ko, na tengga na. Haay buhay.

    Comment by louise — May 11, 2009 @ 6:32 pm | Reply

  24. same sentiments delle… especially right now that my bday is coming up and i know that i’m getting older every year. yeah.. being single is fun coz you can do all you want without having to ask permission from someone to do this & that pero at the end of the day, it still feels good to have someone to go home to or to call before you go to sleep. most of my friends here are already married and there are times na naiingit ako wishing that i too have a family of my own. maybe it’s the ticking biological clock that’s making me think this way but i really get scared na baka single na ko forever. meron namang nagpaparamdam but you know, i don’t want to settle for someone that i don’t really love. haay… kung nabibili lang ba ang other half, spend ko na lahat ng savings ko, he he. sabi nga ni sharks, hahanapan nya na lang daw ako ng sperm donor sa states, marami daw syang kakilala, ha ha ha

    Comment by pops — May 11, 2009 @ 6:33 pm | Reply

  25. You’ll get your turn, Delle. Trust me. You’ll get yours, like I did.

    Comment by survivorjunkie — May 11, 2009 @ 6:53 pm | Reply

  26. Thank you for voicing my sentiments so appropriately! I have already passed the 30th mark more than a year ago. Akala ko dati, it will come. But time is passing and I keep waiting. Walang nangyayari. I might put a smile on my face and tell people, I enjoy being single, but deep inside, I am a romantic. I want somebody I can hold hands with, someone I can watch tv with, argue with, make up with, and generally, enhance who I am. I know I am a complete woman right now. Stable, independent. But it feels like somethings still missing. Don’t get me wrong, I can live my life alone, but truth to tell, I don’t want to. I want what romance books tell us we can have, a man that will love us for who we are, exactly as we are. No ifs, ands, or buts. Sigh. Ok, titigil na ako. Parang blog entry na din eto a. Sorry Del.

    Comment by mariashanelle — May 11, 2009 @ 6:55 pm | Reply

  27. Amen to that… I’m happy being single and independent, but it would be sooooooooo much nicer to have someone in your life that you can share your ups and downs with. I especially love this line: “The truth is, no matter how strong you know you can be, you just want someone to be on your side…maybe not to fight for you but just to be there to hold your hand when you’re done fighting for yourself…”

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    I just want to share my “ka-senti-han.” =)

    Comment by flip_flop03 — May 11, 2009 @ 7:32 pm | Reply

  28. Grabe Delle ngayon ko lang di na pigilan ang sarili ko na di maluha…I can’t believe na napaiyak mo ko..iniexpect ko pa naman hilarious ang blog topic mo today.ikaw talaga hmp!!hehe..You know what i promise my self that i would be married when i turn 28 and now im turning 30 in a couple of months and still very much single not bcoz nobody like me but simply bcoz i don’t see my self settling for somebody less than i deserve..whether i admit it or not i’m true blue hopeless romantic..i want it all..all or nothing sabi nga..and i always envy my friends every time they invited me to be their child godparent…but thats what life is all about..its not always fair especially sa mga taong tulad nating magaganda hahaha kapal noh!!!!haha I’m sure darating din yun..ikaw pa eh i always picture you happily married with someone..Damihan mo lang ang dasal at sasama ko na rin ikaw sa dasal ko:)

    P.S. whats that song by lea salonga someone’s always waiting for you..always believe on that 🙂

    Comment by jen aka gorgeous b. — May 11, 2009 @ 7:54 pm | Reply

  29. wow! if i knew that you are going to write this, i wouldnt have asked for it. im in the same dilemma as you are. maybe it has got something to do with my astrological sign that im great in helping others but could not help my very own self and that i know how to hide my loneliness to others but when alone, the looooooooooonging for someone like what you have mentioned really kills me. an outsider? definitely! im the only one in my barkada who doesnt have a gf, isnt married nor have kids.

    im not helping, am i? hehehehe!…….if only. 🙂

    Comment by blah — May 11, 2009 @ 8:04 pm | Reply

  30. I think putting very raw sentiments like this to words is bold. Many single women claim to be all happy even without a man. But I think yearning for someone to share your life and that connection with is part of human nature.

    I’m with you with being in a relationship not only because of social stigma but simply because it is beautiful. Sometimes I doubt my ever after too – am still very young, maybe I just want some drama. Haha!

    I wish us happiness 🙂

    Comment by KatC — May 11, 2009 @ 8:18 pm | Reply

  31. …KEEP THE FAITH.
    …for the longest time, i thought i was alone in kind of state.
    …sometimes — giving up seems to be the only answer.
    …but then again, happiness is just a state of mind — so they say…
    …i’m wishing you happiness DEL, and all the single woman out they who have yet to find their significant other.

    …your blog is so moving….may you remain to be an inspiration like you had always been.
    …KEEP THE FAITH.

    Comment by ashiteru24 — May 11, 2009 @ 9:00 pm | Reply

  32. i know it may not be enough, but we’re all here to love you delle.

    pwede ako magpasex change for you. ^_^ bwahaha lol

    Comment by princess panget — May 11, 2009 @ 9:07 pm | Reply

  33. don’t worry about it. like in the movie ‘field of dreams’, if you build it, they will come. i do not know what to build so that love will come though, but my point is, if a goofball like me found someone who can at the very least bear with my abnormalities, then there’s no doubt that you too will get the one for you. 😀

    Comment by nat b. — May 11, 2009 @ 9:25 pm | Reply

  34. hay! when it really comes to love, everybody seems to be EMO. A mark that reveals the genuine sensation of the heart… When i was in College, my women’s issue professor told us that women can live without a men. That women shouldn’t depend their existence to men. But of course these principles are for those that keeps on holding femininity. On the other side, everyone should look at the other side of the scene. Women are soft and we need someone to be on our side when we feel that everything is crashing in front of us and when we feel that there’s no one who’ll defend us. We cannot provide everything for us. There are times when some people looks us somewhat where in the center of success, in our hearts we can still feel an emptiness.

    Just this May in our summer camp, our councilor told us to keeps on praying for the RIGHT GUY. As on the holy bible says:

    ” Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desire of your heart.” – Psalm 37:4

    Trust in Him… surely there’s one out there that HE MADE exactly just for you. And it will come soon at the right place and at the right time. Just have FAITH and keeps your HOPE. Today is not yet the verdict time. There’s hope until the whistle blows… =D

    Eto rin ang na fe-feel ko especially when im alone. But surely mas malala in my case. I never had a relationship even before. How sad 😦

    uyyy… nag sisimula ng mag fart about love yung brain nya hahaha… this is the chapter 1!

    Comment by criticalpinaymaxims — May 11, 2009 @ 9:46 pm | Reply

    • same here. I’ve never had a bf before. When I tell my best friend that I at least want to try to have a relationship, he says, forget it. It’s too much hassle. My reply? How can I know if I’ve never tried it? hehe. And to think I passed the 30th mark some time ago.

      Comment by mariashanelle — May 12, 2009 @ 12:09 am | Reply

  35. shemay!!!!! sapul naman ako rito!!!

    i’m a silent rusher and i’m ashamed to admit na mas nae-enjoy ko makinig sa inyo coz i can sooooo relate to your sentiments, del!!! esp now that i’m also in my 30s…

    lately, i’ve been telling my friends na i’m slowly starting to accept na it’s possible na i’ll stay single…though in my heart, there’s still the hope of enjoying the romantic love myself. di na lang puro kwento or sa books or sa movies!

    haaayyy…ayan, para na kong gumawa ng sarili kong blog entry…(copy-paste ko na lang sa blog ko to…hehehe)

    anyways, cheers to us pa rin! …for a happy life ahead…single or not! 😉

    Comment by mikaela — May 11, 2009 @ 9:50 pm | Reply

  36. Incompatible, it don’t matter though / ‘cos someone’s bound to hear my cry
    Speak out if you do / You’re not easy to find
    Is it possible Mr. Loveable / Is already in my life?
    Right in front of me / Or maybe you’re in disguise

    ay wrong song.. eto pala dapat hehe 🙂

    I missed the first train, stood out in the rain, all day
    But little did I know, when I caught the next train
    There you were to sweep me away / Guess that’s what I waited for

    Hugs Delle!!

    Comment by OscarDelaHopia — May 11, 2009 @ 9:56 pm | Reply

  37. sigh… the truth is… i can relate!!!

    Comment by sixteen — May 11, 2009 @ 11:30 pm | Reply

  38. this is the saddest thing i’ve read in a long time… aw… my heart bleeds…

    Comment by suniece — May 12, 2009 @ 12:12 am | Reply

  39. delle, i used to feel that way… i kind of given up the search when i met my husband… so, just hang in there and enjoy life… your “happily ever after” will eventually come… = )

    Comment by sQueakyrose — May 12, 2009 @ 12:25 am | Reply

  40. i honestly think, if you’re happy, you don’t need a man in your life :)… your fans/friends are always here for you 🙂 married or not.

    Comment by Leslie — May 12, 2009 @ 1:40 am | Reply

  41. “…dont cry little one, there’ll be a smile where a frown used to be, you’ll be part of the love that you see

    …soon there’ll be joy and happiness, and your little world will be bright

    …have faith little one till your hopes and your wishes come true…”

    My mom used to sing this to me, hope it helps…

    Comment by Lory — May 12, 2009 @ 4:59 am | Reply

  42. i’m here del, i’m free on sundays, call me hahahaha

    Comment by mAnoyjoe — May 12, 2009 @ 8:10 am | Reply

  43. You know what, Delle? I can definitely relate to you. You have spoken (or written) what I was trying to compose and perhaps still thinking of revealing it to the world through my blog. Though no one cares to read it, but I still have not enough strength to shout it to the world. I guess being alone (and single) is making me protective.

    Can’t wait to learn more about what your brain will be farting (ummmm… that didn’t came out right, i think)… grabe ka rin siguro ma-in love 😉

    Nakakaloka. Ang hirap mag-keep up sa responses ng blog mo. ANG DAMI!

    Be strong. And I’m telling that to myself too 😉

    Oh. Btw, careful now. Since you announced it here na… madami ng magpo-propose sa iyo n’yan… hehehe :p

    Keep on smilin’

    *hugs*

    Comment by Nemcy — May 12, 2009 @ 8:39 am | Reply

  44. hehe… im a single boy and though mas madali for us, that loneliness still creeps up sometimes… lalo n kung lahat s tropa e may relationships… sanay n ako maging 3rd wheel, 5th wheel, xth wheel (where x = odd number) pero it still sucks…

    del, wag k kc maghanap ng chico figure s mga potential mates mo… hehe good mawnin… 😛

    Comment by rehaz — May 12, 2009 @ 9:42 am | Reply

  45. natawa lng ako s mga possible related posts for you brain fart del…
    –> African girl’s dad doesn’t want Madonna adoption

    ano kinalaman ng blog mo kay madonna? hehe

    Comment by rehaz — May 12, 2009 @ 9:45 am | Reply

  46. – Delle i can relate to your sentiments, im also about your age, and still not

    meeting my significant other, i guess what you feel right now is normal.Just pray

    to GOD, i know he will give it to you in HIS PERFECT TIME.Love you delle.

    Comment by =joy= — May 12, 2009 @ 10:26 am | Reply

  47. *hug*

    Comment by camilla_rosa — May 12, 2009 @ 10:27 am | Reply

  48. One word that came to mind about this post, Delle, COURAGEOUS. It takes a big amount of guts to own up to being lonely. Well at least for me hehe. I’d rather eat a handful of mulch than admit how lonely being a singleton is. =p

    And I understand where you’re coming from since I’m a single girl surrounded by happy couples, too. Yun nga lang, you’re luckier bec you’ve been there, you loved and been loved in return, I haven’t. Now I feel naked, shoots. Hehe.

    Don’t worry Delle, the one up there knows the desires of our hearts. Sooner than later, the guy you’ve been waiting for will come along. Sana sa ‘kin din. Hehe. Have a great day! =D

    Comment by Katness — May 12, 2009 @ 10:27 am | Reply

    • kat,

      i loved reading your reply. a lot of people lecture me and i am bristling because it feels like they didn’t get the point. yes, it took a lot of guts to write that knowing people are going to read it. and i feel comforted by the fact that you got me. here i am almost turning red just reading some of the replies. lol. so, thanks kindred single spirit. hope i can return the favor someday…somewhere…somehow…

      Comment by delamar — May 12, 2009 @ 5:47 pm | Reply

  49. na-sad naman ata ko sa entry mo, delle…i’m in a relationship right now.almost perfect si bf but i’m not sure if we would end up together… i can’t help but wonder what it feels like to be with someone else…haay!love…

    Comment by ninang ganda — May 12, 2009 @ 11:26 am | Reply

  50. “The truth is, sometimes this single girl feels like an outsider looking in when I see how happy my friends are with the one they love…

    The truth is I sometimes wonder if I have been wrong all along believing and hoping that my turn will come…”

    grabe, I don’t know what to say… I felt that way way before when I was still single and was going through a bad break-up and then suddenly jumping into series of relationships that never worked then to being single again and going back again with the guy who broke my heart and then to being single again… It was really a roller coaster ride for me… The truth is, I didn’t wait, I searched but luckily the guy meant for me was also searching (for me)… I really don’t know how things work when it comes to love… I guess its always a gamble…

    Comment by Kresha — May 12, 2009 @ 11:37 am | Reply

  51. awww…i know exactly how you feel del. But believe me, you WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN. i had the same sentiments a couple of years back, & even wondered, if some people can find love, why won’t it find me. Let me share with you a message a got before:

    “Love may take long. But it will always take you to where you belong. Just hold on & enjoy the journey. No need to hurry coz your heart will know when it’s finally home. Learn to trust the perfect time so that you may discover that all the pain found in waiting has a magnificent & awesome purpose. In God’s time, you will fall in love for the right reason with the right person. When that time comes, love will be worth the wait, the tears, the pain. then you’ll forget you ever waited.”

    Comment by littlegurl — May 12, 2009 @ 2:10 pm | Reply

  52. pareho tayo ate delle, we’re both libran. my friend once told me that librans live their lives in search of their soulmates.

    there’s some truth to it, i guess. i’m nearly 30 and i’m still single. i don’t wanna look for it anymore because i did that in the past & it didn’t produce the right results. i’ve had SOs before, pero walang nagtagal ng 1 year at the most. haha. i dunno if there’s something wrong with me.

    i don’t have any wise words to say, it’s just that i know EXACTLY how you feel. i know there are times when we might say that we’re ok being with just ourselves, although i’m pretty sure pag kaharap mo ang sarili mo, iba ang sinasabi ng puso mo (naks, drama!).

    i just want you to know that there are a lot of people you inspire, there are a lot of people you’ve touched with your work. i pray that god sends you that one person. sabi nga ni paulo coelho, love is meaningless without someone to share it with.

    Comment by Presea — May 12, 2009 @ 2:49 pm | Reply

  53. i love it when you turns emo…hohoho

    don’t worry darating din si price charming sayo sa ngayon kasi baka bc pa cia sa pakikipagbargain sale daw kasi ng happy ending/happily ever after sa kanila..nagtext siya sa akin kanina lang..ahehe

    Comment by azul — May 12, 2009 @ 3:38 pm | Reply

  54. your “best” man will come at the right time dear delle. “habang may buhay, may pag-asa.” ‘yan ang motto ko sa buhay. hahahaha!!! basta’t asa lang nang asa. missing you and chico.

    Comment by Mel/Melanie — May 12, 2009 @ 4:49 pm | Reply

  55. I believe there’s a time and reason for everything. Keep the faith! You are doing great. Sometimes the more you want it, the more it becomes evasive. Things will happen at the most unexpected moments. Cheer up girl!

    Comment by Mariely — May 12, 2009 @ 5:10 pm | Reply

  56. Hi, Delle. I am 23 and gay and newly single. LOL. Often, my friends (mostly girls) and I would talk about this possibility. “What if no one comes.” Response: “We still have friends and coffee.” Of course, it’s easier said than done. But just to give you ups, whenever I feel depressed that I’m alone, I at times think of you – a great catch who for some reason just can’t catch a break – and I think, if Delle can’t get a decent guy, what about us lesser mortals? Hehe kidding.

    ❤ ❤ ❤

    Comment by glenskie — May 12, 2009 @ 5:19 pm | Reply

  57. we were almost perfect back then? who is this?

    Comment by delamar — May 12, 2009 @ 5:41 pm | Reply

    • I am Melay, an unknown listener and fan of your show, lawyer by profession but an open and willing student of Life!

      Hope i get the chance to meet you and Chico one day!

      Cheers 🙂

      Comment by Melay — May 14, 2009 @ 6:16 pm | Reply

    • IN CASE it’s me you’re asking:
      i’m just a new blogger here in wordpress who hasn’t gathered enough guts to tell the cyber world how i lonely i am. i may look as happy as any girl you’d see. but inside me is a longing for true love. serious love.
      KUDOS to you, delle!

      Comment by JustAnotherSingleGirl — May 20, 2009 @ 10:14 am | Reply

      • oo nga. that’s why i wrote “so real, so virtual. i don’t think women (and/or men) should be afraid to own up to their feelings. as long as they are true, you’re not harming anybody. i think expressing them and sorting them out is better than denying them. some people tho are so allergic to admitting that they are scared or lonely or whatever. i think they are scared to be vulnerable. my thought is, whatever for?

        Comment by delamar — May 20, 2009 @ 2:03 pm

  58. nawala comment ko 😦 i sent it last night… 😦

    Comment by mikaela — May 12, 2009 @ 5:54 pm | Reply

  59. weird! now it’s back! hehehe…i swear it wasn’t there kanina… 🙂

    Comment by mikaela — May 12, 2009 @ 6:02 pm | Reply

  60. hi Delle, I super understand how you feel.
    I know it can be really tiring and frustrating to wait. sometimes when I give advises to friends about relationship, I get to ask myself, if Im good in making relationship work, how come I am still single?

    What I do now while Im single, I enjoy as I prepare myself emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually so when the time comes my plus one from our Lord arrives, I am super ready to share my whole self and my life with him.

    Comment by Merski — May 12, 2009 @ 6:11 pm | Reply

  61. I feel the same way with my friends who have their happy ending already…
    Sigh! but that’s ok, we’ll get our turn anyway…. Mr. Right is just out there, he’s just a little lost…. Hehehe

    Comment by summerrain — May 12, 2009 @ 6:24 pm | Reply

  62. Positive Aspects Of Libra In Love:
    Demonstrative – Affectionate – Playful – Sensual – Gentle – Fair – Giving – Receptive

    Negative Aspects Of Libra In Love:
    Indecisive – Self-Centered – Detached – Temperamental – Envious – Dishonest

    Romantic Style:
    Sociable – Charming – Easy-Going
    Libra natives are pure romantics and very much “partnership” oriented. They often fail to feel complete unless in a relationship. Thus, they must take care not to fall into the trap of believing that any relationship is better than no relationship at all. Libra is the epitome of finesse and grace and individuals who fall under the jurisdiction of this Sign require companionship, style, elan and harmonious surroundings. To Libra, the physically intimate side of a union is only one part of a fine, subtle, artistic and beautiful commitment.

    Comment by Oracle — May 12, 2009 @ 9:18 pm | Reply

  63. naniniwala ako na kelangan din ng effort para makahanap ng matinong boyfrend. Itigil na ung paniniwalang ‘darating din sya’… Wag mo nang hintayin kundi ikaw na mismo ang maghanap. Kung hindi mo sya mahanap saka ka pa lang maghintay malay mo nung panahong hinahanap mo sya e hinahanap ka rin pala nya yun nga lang maling lugar napuntahan nya. Sa panahon ngaun mukhang paubos na ang mga lalaki laan para kay babae nauso na kasi ang m2m relationship. Sya nga pala pagkatpos m0ng maghintay hanapin mo sya ulit..kumbaga pagpapahinga lang ung paghihintay mo malay mo nung hinihintay mo sya e hinihintay ka rin pla nya..effort.effort.eforrt. One good thing about being single. .napapabagal ang pagdami ng populasyon…

    Comment by Taympers — May 12, 2009 @ 9:20 pm | Reply

  64. All single ladies out there (myself included) feels this way at times…we start looking around us wondering why on earth are we all alone when point of fact, we know we’re not so bad ourselves in practically all aspects…there’s that consolation too that we’re doing well careerwise, that’s why most guys get pretty intimidated.. when truth of the matter is, we can readily give it all up in exchange of that someone who’s ready to give the world to you… *sigh*

    “I’ve been dating since I was 15! I’m exhausted! Where is he?!” ~ Charlotte Yorke, Sex and the City

    Comment by shiver — May 12, 2009 @ 9:23 pm | Reply

  65. Hi Delle,

    I’m going to rub it in. Singlehood sucks. My courtship score is zero-five. I love movies. Everytime I’m at Glorietta on a Friday waiting for the movie to start and I see couples, I hated it. On Sundays when I go out with my friends who are married, I feel like a bodyguard. I longed for someone to whom I can share my joys and frustrations with, someone who understands me and accepts who I am, so on and so forth. I am unhappy and miserable and I want to get hitched.

    I also believe in waiting for God’s time. During one of your morning shows, I heard you belong to a graduated from a christian school. Now, whether you still prescribe to christian teaching or not, I’m going to tell you that I prayed, no, I cried to God in desperation, yet I want to have someone who believes in the God I believe in and is active in ministry. I also told God I want someone who can play the piano. For someone who scores zero-five in courtship, I am demanding.

    It has been 8 years since the Lord answered my prayer. For you, it may mean a longer wait, or that someone may just be under your nose, I can’t say, but what I can say with certainty, is its worth the wait.

    Comment by meandtina — May 12, 2009 @ 9:48 pm | Reply

  66. nauna kong i-check out ang blog mo today kesa s blog ng humble na blogger n c chico, and yours (i’m so sorry chico) has more heart.. keep it up, cheers!
    okay, i’ll go to chico’s blog na.
    -mickeyduck.

    Comment by mickeyduck — May 12, 2009 @ 10:18 pm | Reply

  67. nyay..bt ako naiiyak? *sniff*Sniff*

    just when i thought i’m all alone..another being comes out in the open and bravely shares to the world exactly what i’m feeling. *sigh*

    so thanks for that del! you were strong enough to say things most of us we’re afraid to admit…so that must mean that you have more strength in you to forge on. this is what my hopeful side is tellin’.

    but truth be told…singleton does lead to despair sometimes..everybody feels it., i am feeling it. it’s extra burden pa to hear that most of the guys i dated seem to have found their better halves after breaking up with me. it’s childish i know..but cant help to feel sorry for myself when i think about it. no, i dont wanna play ‘good luck chuck’ for men. i want to have the luck myself! i know am okay by myself but that doesn’t extinguish the fact that i am still eager to finally be with the one He made for me. and you’re right, sometimes waiting gets so depressing.

    ayayay. is there really hope?

    lika…sing n lng tau ‘hawak kamay’!

    Comment by kaladkaReNg — May 12, 2009 @ 11:28 pm | Reply

  68. del! you’re so beautiful! and smart! and cracks very witty hirits and comments on your daily radio show! and you’re smart! and beautiful! and i love it when you sing candidly! so sing with me now… “love, love *will* come my way… everything’s gonna be okay…” 🙂

    hi to chico. di na niya ko maalala but i met him once in badminton through your good friend, sumi. cheers to singlehood for the meantime and all the what-nots in between! it is a blessed state. 🙂

    Comment by rors — May 12, 2009 @ 11:58 pm | Reply

  69. grabeee with just a few words, you’ve captured my thoughts… my 2cents worth. hehe as much as i dont want to wallow on the thought of being single, there are just times when you stop in your tracks and think that in spite of all the distraction that surrounds you, it all boils down to wanting someone who will “hold your hand when you’re done fighting for yourself…”

    im a silent rusher back in pinas.. until here in hk by listening to blue ritz’s podcast. thanks to him, i can listen to your words of wisdom and that contagious laugh.. especially when you laugh sooo hard until everything seems silent- dead air ba? hahaha

    Comment by 2cEnTs — May 13, 2009 @ 12:02 am | Reply

  70. *sigh* can i just say that i hate you for putting me in an emo mood?!?!?! hehehe.. fine. i don’t hate you.. i just hate the fact that i can relate to what you posted. *tears*

    I also think Iris of “The Holiday” put it aptly:

    “I’ve found almost everything ever written about love to be true. Shakespeare said “Journeys end in lovers meeting.” What an extraordinary thought. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that, but I am more than willing to believe Shakespeare had. I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should. I am constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives. It was Shakespeare who also said “love is blind”. Now that is something I know to be true. For some quite inexplicably, love fades; for others love is simply lost. But then of course love can also be found, even if just for the night. And then, there’s another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. It’s called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded. The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space! “

    Comment by therese — May 13, 2009 @ 12:44 am | Reply

  71. …i just hoped that however we take this blog, it may not be as great how katness got it….bottom line is that we all feel for each other, we all feel you.

    …we all take things differently but i hope you feel the outpour of love –from all your friends out here…beyond all else….

    Comment by ashiteru24 — May 13, 2009 @ 12:44 am | Reply

  72. Wow… I felt that! If we can just have a magic wand, it would be as easy as whipping it to the air and saying the magic word… Well, I know you’re a great person and you deserve someone as great as you. Just pray for it (I know you’ve heard this time and time again…)not to kill the hope but pray for what His plans are… if it’s for you to be with Him then… napaka-special ng guy na un dahil imagine… it took that long for God to prepare him for you. If His plan is for you to enjoy life on your own (I personally hope not)… then pray that he may prepare your heart for it and may He bring the best people around you to not make you feel “others”.

    No matter what.. You’re such a great person that a lot of people LOVE… you might not know all of us… but you’ve been a big part of their life — well at least mine. =)

    Comment by Niegel — May 13, 2009 @ 5:20 am | Reply

    • pitch perfect.
      tissue…tissue…
      loved every word.
      this is one thing a blog can do
      that radio can’t.

      grateful to you & the whole general blogosphere,
      Delamar

      Comment by delamar — May 13, 2009 @ 9:19 pm | Reply

  73. Hmmm… mahirap kasi delle takot cguro guys sayo… parang too perfect perhaps?

    Career, intelligence, beauty…lahat nasayo na…

    Pwede ka din sumigawa na “KASALANAN KO BA KUNG PINANGANAK AKONG MAGANDA?!”

    Hmmm… Maging DIVA ka na lang kaya forever… heheh

    and I quote from Beyonce

    *DIVA is the female version of a HUSTLER!

    Hehe ^^,

    Ako dpa ako natatakot maging single all my life coz I’m a guy and I can still be biologically functional…ang hirap naman kasi pag babae db? Hayyy…I wish you happiness… sana mag effort ka mag date kahit paano… kaya pa naman eh db? tapos pag may mga occassion dpat laging regalo sayo lalake heheh…

    Comment by KUMAGCOW — May 13, 2009 @ 5:36 am | Reply

  74. welcome to wordpress!
    well, nauna kong basahin ang blog mo today kesa s blog ng humble blogger na si chico, and i must say, yours, has a heart (sorry chico).
    o sige na, i’ll go to chico’s blog na, baka kasi nagchecheck sya ng attendance dun eh…bwahahaha
    cheers!

    Comment by crissy — May 13, 2009 @ 9:21 am | Reply

  75. nice blog entry there delle… i feel for you… you can hold my hand heheh *wink*wink*

    Comment by babyburn — May 13, 2009 @ 9:35 am | Reply

  76. don’t stop believing! God loves you! ñ_ñ

    Comment by eminess — May 13, 2009 @ 9:41 am | Reply

  77. Just w8 for him del and he will come in any possible way that you can’t imagine him to meet him. ^_^

    Comment by tomodache — May 13, 2009 @ 11:42 am | Reply

  78. The truth is… you should not stop believing..nor hoping..

    The truth is…he is out there.. also feeling the same way as yours…

    The truth is none of us should be scared of the uncertain…

    The truth is… when you stop…that is the end of it

    Comment by wolfpac — May 13, 2009 @ 1:41 pm | Reply

  79. hayy…while i was reading this yesterday, four seasons of loneliness was the song playing on my itunes…perfect emo moment! hehe

    your turn will come..wait lang.. 😀

    Comment by sasha purse — May 13, 2009 @ 2:40 pm | Reply

  80. hi girl,

    when loneliness knocks on your door & started to sink in.. I mean is never really easy but I guess it’s one of the best time that our girl friends will enter the picture… It’s also the best time to invest in improving one self & be the best to help us feel good about ourselves.. spreading your network would offer a great help too that way it increases your chance of meeting more people and in that way you can be able to learn from them & cope up much more easily…

    praying for a meaningful relationship for you my dear!! stay happy & pretty as always… =)

    Comment by Charmy girl — May 13, 2009 @ 3:11 pm | Reply

  81. Delle,

    One reason kaya hinubog ang babae mula sa tadyang ng lalake is because men and women alike are meant to have someone for each other, otherwise God just molded another person from clay like He did to Adam.

    It’s either na mailap ka lang that you haven’t met the one for you, or you don’t notice that the person for you is actually right in front of you (well, Chico included.).

    Don’t be afraid to try and be in a real relationship with a SINGLE guy (kahit me anak basta single! malay mo, balo pala…)

    I know it’s not easy being in a relationship but hey, who said using a public toilet is easy?

    Listen with your heart, and love with your brain.

    Comment by Neo — May 13, 2009 @ 6:04 pm | Reply

  82. Delle,

    Don’t lose hope (i’m also talking to myself). I am so sure that the right guy will be there for you. why am sure about that? because you are on heck of a gal who deserve to be happy and to be loved. when that time comes ill say “YOU GO DELLE!”
    DON’T STOP!!!

    Comment by skylar — May 13, 2009 @ 7:10 pm | Reply

  83. I can totally relate.

    Comment by uhija — May 13, 2009 @ 8:45 pm | Reply

  84. Del,

    we love you… your feelings and emotions are so real, transparent, and being this honest is a step for wonderful feelings to be felt soon.

    Strong lady, here’s cheers for being a woman! Cheers!

    Comment by joanne manliclic — May 13, 2009 @ 11:44 pm | Reply

    • “a step for wonderful feelings to be felt soon…” i like that idea.

      Comment by delamar — May 14, 2009 @ 1:47 pm | Reply

  85. Hi Del,

    I think it is natural for us to think that way… I myself felt the same way. But more often than not, we tend not to see or feel the people beside us. The care and love that they give is actually what we needed most. Only that, we tend not to see it that way, because we wanted to see it the way we want to see it.

    Arch

    Comment by archie — May 14, 2009 @ 12:26 am | Reply

  86. may i quote something from “how i met your mother”…

    “He’s on his way… and he’s getting here as fast as he can…”

    Comment by rehaz — May 14, 2009 @ 8:07 am | Reply

    • i have oleta adams’ “Get Here” in the background while i read your comment… 🙂

      Comment by delamar — May 14, 2009 @ 1:45 pm | Reply

      • nice… by railway? by airplane? or by de-padyak… hehe

        Comment by rehaz — May 15, 2009 @ 10:05 am

  87. Upon seeing your page, first thing I thought was, “cool… Del and I have the same template” (but mine’s in friendster hehe)…

    Anyway, how I wish I could talk, like REAL TALK, to those people who have exactly the same sentiments. This blog entry somehow reminded me that yeah, at the back of my mind, there’s this yearning that I always try to ignore. It’s hard to deny the feeling especially when it feels like everyone around me is trying to understand why I don’t have a boyfriend. Well, I am as clueless.

    Wish you all the best, Del!

    Comment by mademoisellejulie — May 14, 2009 @ 8:22 am | Reply

    • i think in the friends department, i’ve been very blessed/lucky/fortunate to find really really good ones. so i have a handful of people i know can understand me, who will listen to me, and who will make me feel extra included in their lives to cheer me up. really, they are so sweet…hindi lang halata kasi mga maldita at maldito din! lol.

      Comment by delamar — May 14, 2009 @ 1:44 pm | Reply

  88. i think you’re still lucky because you been in a
    relationship….you get to experience LOVE LOVE LOVE……
    sometimes i cried thinking about the future…..
    but anyways we have RX to get us ALL BUSY 🙂

    Comment by timecate — May 14, 2009 @ 8:42 am | Reply

    • i grew up in Sunday school and I always felt comforted by this bible verse…“for we know that all things work together for good…to them who love God; to them who are called according to his purpose” it’s the biblical translation to the very modern saying “it’s all good”. and i really believe that…

      Comment by delamar — May 14, 2009 @ 1:41 pm | Reply

  89. ouch!
    i feel for you delle..
    i guess..we should not pressure other people, if by this time of their life they haven’t found their true love..(hmmm..i remember tuloy the song God blessed the broken road, if i am correct with the title!)
    well, delle maybe ur true love and u..is having through a situation that u have to face,so that by the time that u meet each other in the future..it is already the PERFECT TIME!
    ..i know those broken roads & situations will lead u straight to each other..(“,)
    Your my favorite!

    Comment by lady maldita — May 14, 2009 @ 1:09 pm | Reply

  90. here’s another one:
    delle,
    you deserve to be happy,
    not in the arms of someone who keeps you waiting but in the arms of someone who’s willing to take you now, love you forever & will leave you never..(sniff! sniff!)
    (just stay as cool & smart & beautiful as u are, dito naman kaming mga rushers..WE WILL LOVE U!)

    Comment by lady maldita — May 14, 2009 @ 1:15 pm | Reply

    • thanks, lady maldita. 🙂

      Comment by delamar — May 14, 2009 @ 1:35 pm | Reply

  91. whoh delle you’re so brave with this blog entry a lot of single people won’t admit this to themselves, even me, you go girl!! we just have to continue praying na sana dumating na ang guy for us.

    Comment by munting_atay — May 14, 2009 @ 3:08 pm | Reply

  92. Hi dell. I am a fan! And everytime I hear your sentiments on Love on RX, i could just heave a heavy sigh, AMEN to that, all the time. I also feel the same way, sometimes asking why is it taking so long? What’s wrong? But at the end of the day, I am okay, I love where, whom and what I have, equal to the fact that although I may not be perfect, I love myself as well.

    They say faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen (Hebrews 11:1). So more than hoping, have faith, it would happen! 🙂

    Comment by Melay — May 14, 2009 @ 4:56 pm | Reply

  93. It seems that you have a broken link on your latest post. Maybe re-post it so people can comment again. Or maybe you disabled it? Dunno!

    Anyway delle, you are going to be a pro on this blogging thing believe me…
    To think you have got 118 comments on a single one means you have touched that many people in just one post. You struck a chord, you tripped a wire, you made saksak their puso…. but whatever it is, it is real as you said… keep on blogging Delle and share a little of yourself to the world!

    While I’ll stay and watch from my laptop…and smile every once in a while on your nice posts.

    🙂

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    Comment by KUMAGCOW — May 15, 2009 @ 9:21 am | Reply

  94. Hi Del,

    Just wanted to share this poem that was given to me by my friend almost five years ago. Was in the same situation before..thought I was the last single lady on earth..too afraid to be lonely forever.

    Just Because
    Author unknown

    Just because no one has been fortunate enough
    to realize what a gold mine you are,
    doesn’t mean you shine any less.

    Just because no one has been smart enough
    to figure out that you can’t be topped,
    doesn’t stop you from being the best.

    Just because no one has come along
    to share your life,
    doesn’t mean that day isn’t coming.

    Just because no one has made
    this race worthwhile,
    doesn’t give you permission to stop running.

    Just because no one has realized
    how much of a woman you are,
    doesn’t mean they can effect your femininity.

    Just because no one has come
    to take the loneliness away,
    doesn’t mean you have to settle for a lower quality.

    Just because no one has shown up
    who can love you on your level,
    doesn’t mean you have to sink to theirs.

    Just because you deserve
    the very best there is,
    doesn’t mean that life is always fair.

    Just because God
    is still preparing your king,
    doesn’t mean that you’re not already a queen.

    Just because your situation
    doesn’t seem to be progressing right now,
    doesn’t mean you need to change a thing.

    Keep shining,
    Keep running,
    Keep hoping,
    Keep praying,

    Keep being exactly what you are already,
    complete.

    Well…Best things come when you least expect it. Now I am happy with my hubby here in NYC.

    Carpe Diem.

    -aNj-

    Not sure if you still remember me. I came and visited you guys with Super Edong and his wife a week before I flew to New York. 🙂 weeeee..

    Lotsalove from NYC! :p

    Comment by aNj — May 15, 2009 @ 11:40 am | Reply

  95. this is so touching delle.
    im not single but i do feel you on this (as a libran).
    there were times when i feel like i don’t need anyone coz i’m strong enough to handle things but deep inside i feel very sad, hoping that there would be someone who’ll “be there.”
    anyway, i pray and believe na darating din yung right guy for you.
    it may not be anytime soon, pero hintay lang… ibibigay din siya sa’yo.
    tc! (=

    Comment by jhaCk — May 15, 2009 @ 10:10 pm | Reply

    • thanks, jhack. very sweet of you to say so…

      Comment by delamar — May 18, 2009 @ 1:14 pm | Reply

  96. Hi delle, just got to see your blog. I’m not really into blog parang ikaw pero mukhang type ko na sya kasi nag boblog ka na rin eh.

    Hindi naman kailangan na may karelasyon ka para maging masaya. Basta alam mo na buo ka sa sarili mo kahit mag-isa ka ok na yun….

    Yun lang parang di ka buo kasi eh…

    peace..
    silent rusher ako eh since college hanggang ngayon na may asawa at mga anak na ako silent rusher pa rin…

    Comment by lyn_wench — May 16, 2009 @ 3:09 am | Reply

  97. Hi Delamar…. I Must confess that thru a most dear friend who grew up listening to your program while living in Phi has me hooked to listening to your top 10 program that is on the internet. I am not a Phi native, I was born here in the US, of Italian decent… who has been blessed with meeting and making friends with a huge number of people from Phi. So, with that in mind….. after reading your post The question comes to mind.. I like you am a hopeless romantic, well… I believe I found her and we have been seeing each other for close to a year now… secretly as she is attached to another. There is no argument except when the 3rd party interviens.. No…. its not Lust…lol but Looooovvvveeeee
    Anyway… she has left her mate 2x only to return. Not good for me… Ive toiled with just leaving but find it most difficult to let go still thinking there is a glimmer of hope..
    you know how us Libra Hopeless Romantics become… 🙂
    She says she is love with me… but ….. well it did not happen… so with that said.. I really dont know what to do… Yes, i know as its not a healthy situation to be in….
    Reading your blog… it seems that we share the same viewpoints about this crazy thing called love…
    Would you give me insight as to how you would handle this if it were you ?

    Comment by Daniel Mooch — May 16, 2009 @ 5:13 am | Reply

    • i think you know what to do deep down inside. it’s just that you don’t have the strength to do it yet…?

      Comment by delamar — May 18, 2009 @ 1:13 pm | Reply

  98. hi delle,

    wow! indeed a brave and very honest post.. haven’t read something like this from chico’s blog..
    hehehe…
    darating din ang lalake para sayo..
    i just want to say that you are awesome… hehehe

    Comment by humdinger — May 16, 2009 @ 9:21 am | Reply

    • two very different approaches to blogging…mine is still in the process of taking shape. let’s see what this evolves into.

      Comment by delamar — May 18, 2009 @ 1:12 pm | Reply

      • right… i find your blog a little bit more serious..
        chico’s a geek blog… hehehe

        Comment by humdinger — May 19, 2009 @ 10:49 am

      • the truth is…i really am a serious chick. hala, sumbong kita kay chico…lol.

        Comment by delamar — May 19, 2009 @ 6:56 pm

  99. Hi Delle! I also feel what you are feeling right now. And it just really sad to be alone. Oh well. Anyway, I just wanna share with you this one that I read way back. The title of this one is “A Letter to the One that God Has Prepared for Me”. And I do believe this one. I just have to wait. We just have to wait.

    A LETTER TO THE ONE THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR ME.

    I am wondering at this very minute if you are thinking of me, if like me, you are wondering what is taking us so long to find each other.
    Many times I thought I finally found you only to be disillusioned by the fact that my wait has not yet ended. I get up each morning hoping, dreaming, longing to meet you. I am thinking of how we will meet, would it be as romantic as the ones I have seen in movies? Or is it possible that I have known you all my life but we have yet to realize that we are meant for each other? Oh how I wish you were here right now because you are the only one who has the answers to all my questions.

    Sometimes I ask myself if I have ever really known “love”. I do not have the answer to that question either but I believe that, more often than not, we will never really know what love is until we find that right person…and since I have not found you yet, then maybe I do not really know what love is!

    You just don’t know how often I dream of finally knowing what it feels like to be in your arms. Even at this very moment I am imagining how you will simply sweep me off my feet! Perhaps I would be drawn to you by your smile, or your eyes, or maybe even how you manage to make me laugh by your silly little ways! I don’t really know for sure but I am praying that God will help me recognize you when the right time comes.

    I think of all the pain that I have gone through in the past and of how much I have cried since the day I began my search. I just wanted you to know that I find my strength in clinging onto my vision of the beautiful life ahead of me — the life I shall spend with you. In my mind and in my heart I know that you are worth all that pain and sacrifice. After all, the tears have become a part of my life and I believe that they are slowly washing away my flaws so that I would become perfect, not perfect in its truest sense, but perfect — for YOU! I wonder if you’ve gone through so much pain as well. I wonder if you’ve been hurt so many times along the journey. But my dearest one, please don’t ever give up because I am right here… patiently waiting for you! I assure you that when we finally find each other I would slowly heal those wounds by my love.

    At night, I would look out my window and stare at the beautiful sky, hoping that somehow you are also looking up and wondering about me. I utter a silent prayer and send all my cries to the heavens above thinking that in time they would reach you. And when I feel impatient, I just close my eyes and believe that you are on your way and that you are longing to see me as well. It is funny but when I finally fall asleep, it is still you that I think of, for you are always in my dreams. It seems that, for now, that is the only place where I can hold on to you, long enough to tell you how much I love you. In my dreams you would kiss away my fears and wrap me with your arms of love.

    And this, all the more, makes me want to wake up and face the new day ahead with the hope that soon enough, you will no longer be a dream but a reality and once again I am assured that you are worth the wait.
    And when that time comes, everything will fall into its place, just as I had imagined, just as I had thought and dreamed, just as I had believed it would be! By then, I would simply look back and smile at all that I have gone through, in spite of the pain and amidst the simple joys of life — and I would be very thankful because they all led me to you!!!
    In the meantime, take care of yourself for me. Hold on to our dream and don’t even think of letting go. Believe in your heart that we will find each other no matter what happens. God has planned the course and it is up to us to follow the directions. Don’t worry, don’t be afraid about getting lost, God saw to it that all the roads, no matter which one you choose to follow, lead to me.

    nice right? like i’ve said, we just have to wait for the right one.

    Comment by babyprincess — May 16, 2009 @ 10:30 am | Reply

  100. why i can’t put my comment on your latest post sa blog?

    Comment by hannah_bananah — May 18, 2009 @ 9:50 am | Reply

  101. Delle, if it isn’t happy ending, then it’s not the ending yet…

    Comment by jerguin22 — May 18, 2009 @ 11:19 am | Reply

  102. I believe that you’re an awesome girl Delle! Your prince is on his way.. and he’s such a lucky prince :p

    Comment by partyharderman — May 18, 2009 @ 5:34 pm | Reply

  103. I dont have much to say, coz I know you know better bout singlehood, bout life..than me.. and my sole reason for posting something down here is just to let you know how much this entry of yours moved me. I honestly got teary eyed on this one, for, this enable me to realize, and maybe to read something which I’ve been wanting to say to the whole world. I’m a heavy blogger, and I’ve been keeping the same sentiments like yours, away from my blog site. I’ve rant about my heartaches, but I never got the courage to admit those things right on my blog pages. I’m too scared to be laughed at, to be called pathetic/desperate. You’re so brave,and Im secretly hoping here that I could also find the same courage as yours, to admit that somehow, some part of myself needs a man. I may not need a man to give direction in my life, but to give purpose to that direction…:)

    Comment by roseeta — May 18, 2009 @ 5:49 pm | Reply

    • yeah, modern day womanhood has gotten so difficult. jusko, as if we needed anymore pressure! i’m glad you are one of those women who can admit that even if it is just to yourself. it is important not to deny our feelings. we should honor them but always keeping in mind they are feelings that come and go as well.

      Comment by delamar — May 18, 2009 @ 9:57 pm | Reply

  104. oh del, i’m so with you on this one.. sabi nga ng bff ko…in HIS time… there should be somebody…just out there….for gorgeous girls like us! hehe smile!

    Comment by gerkikay — May 18, 2009 @ 5:52 pm | Reply

  105. hi del.. silent fan mo ako and i’m glad my blog site ka na

    ‘singleness’ ba ang drama? ako din single eh. Malapit ng mag 29 sa darating na bday ko this year.

    hmmm.. di kaya busy ka lang sa kakahanap ng ‘right guy’ pero nasa tabi-tabi mo lang pala sya? i mean, baka may nagpapalipad hangin na sya pero di mo lang pinapansin…

    ** baka nga ako din ganon eh.. haaayyy..

    Comment by Loi — May 18, 2009 @ 11:27 pm | Reply

    • it’s possible…medj dense ako minsan sa ganyan eh.

      Comment by delamar — May 19, 2009 @ 7:06 pm | Reply

  106. believe it or not, i had to go to the restroom first before making this comment, and stayed there for 20mins. why? i cried!!! damn! reading this felt as if my heart was the one talking and i was just listening to the truth my heart wanted to say. (you see, 6days ago i broke up with my boyfriend, so yeah, the pain is still kinda fresh). but i haven’t shed i tear. for (at least) 2 weeks of being hurt until finally getting my heart be broken (again), NOT A SINGLE TEAR fell (yep, i wanted to cry cause i was scared i’d go nuts. lol.) UNTIL i read your blog. it felt like IT’S SO ME!
    i know how frustrating it feels, especially when ALL you wanted is to love and be loved in return. (is it too much to ask??? i dunno) for the last 26 years, i only had 3 relationships, the longest lasted for only 6months.
    MODESTY ASIDE: but i know got the looks, the brains, and..(the list goes on), yet i’m still single. People say i’m sweet, nice, caring, fun to be with and all that, yet nobody wanted to date me. some say i’m the marrying type, but nobody dared to tell me i’m a girlfriend material. weird, huh? i sometimes can’t help but ask (and i wanna ask outloud): “Napakahirap ko ba talagang mahalin?”
    oopsie, i’m sorry if i ranted here. blog mo ‘to, hindi sken. hehe! well, i just wanna say “i know how it feels. but we shouldn’t lose hope. i’m sure it’s WORTH the wait. good luck to us, single ladies. hehe!”. and thanks for finally making me cry. nabawasan ang bigat sa loob ko. salamat.
    ps – feel free to delete this. i just needed to let it out. salamat ulet!

    Comment by JustAnotherSingleGirl — May 20, 2009 @ 10:03 am | Reply

  107. I turned 26 last Monday and I can totally relate with your sentiments about being a single in a world dominated by couples. People ask me what am I waiting for daw? I am the only one in the family who remains single. We are expecting my nephew this month. Aaaarghh! Ako daw, kelan ko balak magbaby? Some say negotiable na kung may husband or not, a baby would be enough na. But I refuse to lower my expectations. I still believe there is a divine plan at work in my life, all I have to do is trust. I adore you for being the epitome of single ladies who know what they want in life. I always listen to the Morning Rush everyday during the mind-numbing commute to work. I want to thak you and Chico for starting my day right everyday. Kaso lang last Monday, I got a bit depressed kasi birthday ko tapos ang topic sa Top Ten was The Signs that Nobody Loves You. Huhuhuhu! Ouch, some of the entries struck a raw nerve in my life.

    Comment by mayonnaise — May 21, 2009 @ 10:11 am | Reply

    • don’t take it too hard…life is really too short to spend even a second being sad. consider the alternative.

      Comment by delamar — May 21, 2009 @ 2:34 pm | Reply

      • Yeah, I’ll keep that in mind everytime sadness creeps in. Thanks! I should be the one offering positive thoughts to lift up your mood but I ended up being the one consoled. Thank you, this means a lot to me. 😉

        Comment by mayonnaise — May 22, 2009 @ 9:37 am

      • you’re very welcome. 🙂

        Comment by delamar — May 22, 2009 @ 12:14 pm

  108. grabe dami naman comment! katamad basahin lahat hehehe =)

    Comment by dan — May 22, 2009 @ 6:21 am | Reply

  109. Hi delle! Tagos pati sa bone marrow ko ang post mong to..sobra!hehehe… but..its so true…;) me and my girl friends..puro mga singles kmi ngyn sa group.. 2 kaming NBSB ngyn..hahaha…pero we really don’t mind, as long as we’re happy..(bitter)bwahahha..hindi ah!happy naman tlga..pero minsan napapaisip pa rin shmpre…hahahaha..pero carry naman eh…

    keep on blogging delle!im a suuuper fan ninyong 2 ni chico..suuuper silent rusher..haha..
    Godbless..

    para sa mga single!!!!*taas natin yan*

    *del, i hope u remember our group nun asa ortigas kayo?sa gas station?lapit sa metrowalk…tas nagpapicture pa kmi sa inyo ni chico..hehehe…hmmm..august last year i think…..suuper tanda ko pa daw..hehehe…

    Comment by Caramello — May 22, 2009 @ 10:24 am | Reply

    • were you the group who had a friend who couldn’t come along with you to the stick on? and then we called your friend on your cell?

      Comment by delamar — May 22, 2009 @ 12:13 pm | Reply

      • waaaaaah!you replied pala!huhuhu..i didn’t notice…sad face.hehehe..

        anyways,hmm..i think were not that group…hehehe..although, yeah we called our friend over my cell…kasi its his last day in our office..and then we invited you to join our videoke session,but unfortunately you guys are not available…since you have a premiere in megamall..bolt i think..hahahaha..i can still remember everything..how about a picture?bwahahahahahaha!
        its ok delle,you really don’t have to remember naman eh..hahaha

        i really love your show..and you guys of course..winkwink!

        Comment by Caramello — May 26, 2009 @ 8:21 am

      • if that’s the stick on sa caltex at meralco ave corner jvargas….i remember this group who had their pics taken with us…and then we called a friend of theirs who wasnt there…but i dont think he could hear us clearly. that’s not you?

        Comment by delamar — May 26, 2009 @ 1:51 pm

      • Hi delle!yeah thats us!yipeeee!!!im soooooo glad you remember..hahaha!He couldn’t hear you daw..kasi na voicestruck daw tlga cia sayo..suuper fan kasi..kaya yun…..feeling niya daw asa heaven cia..

        Comment by Caramello — May 27, 2009 @ 9:15 am

      • see!!!! i remember!

        Comment by delamar — May 27, 2009 @ 6:02 pm

      • nice memory!wooohoooo!

        Comment by Caramello — May 28, 2009 @ 4:16 pm

  110. hi delle. i know how you feel before i had a bf and got married to him. ako nga 1st and last. wala tuloy comparison. hehe. don’t lose hope kasi nga my mom got married when she was 40. dalawa pa kaming naging bunga ng kuya ko. dapat nga ibe-beat ko sya kaso nagmadali na din ako magpakasal kasi baka makawala pa. hehe. i believe in destiny, try mong ibaba ang standard mo kahit 1 level lang. makikita mo din ung hinahanap mo. good luck sayo delle, i-announce mo sa morning rush pag may bf ka na ha. masarap kayang i-share ung happy feelings. di kagaya ni chico,malihim. hehe. take care!

    Comment by Toeknee Sermeno — May 22, 2009 @ 10:22 pm | Reply

    • ibaba ang standard ko? i don’t think i have high standards at all. i mean, just looking at my dating resume. they have all been average blokes naman… oh well…

      Comment by delamar — May 24, 2009 @ 2:20 am | Reply

  111. Hello Del.. I agree with what you said as: The truth is, no matter how strong you know you can be, you just want someone to be on your side…maybe not to fight for you but just to be there to hold your hand when you’re done fighting for yourself…

    I just had 41st birthday the other week, and been feeling too this need of a company, that some one on my side. I had every thing I asked for except for one, that one person. It’s a lonely world out there… I keep praying, some times I just felt that the waiting is taking forever.. Anyway…. thanks for letting me vent…

    Comment by WhitePearl — May 24, 2009 @ 8:43 am | Reply

  112. you’re actually good with this blog stuff. very heartfelt.

    “The truth is, no matter how strong you know you can be, you just want someone to be on your side…maybe not to fight for you but just to be there to hold your hand when you’re done fighting for yourself…”

    this is so true. but all we beautiful, almost perfect but super smart single ladies can do is to wait patiently and productively while doing our own thing. after all, in love, waiting is the sweetest stress 😀

    Comment by onick valero — May 26, 2009 @ 3:01 pm | Reply

    • i like that line! “after all, in love, waiting is the sweetest stress.” so true!

      Comment by delamar — May 26, 2009 @ 7:56 pm | Reply

  113. Excuse me, will start a “completely out of topic” here…I was listening to the old recordings of your show while I am doing my work. Its like an addicition, cause I am always looking forward to listening to you guys…and even when I’m about to sleep, I have to keep my PC on and still listen to the show, cause your laughters and wittiness is like a lullaby to me. Anyway, I am not writing here cause of that, I just want to make a very, very late comment on the discussion that you had last June 9, 2008. The topic is, “Things to say to someone who is about to give up”. You said that you will not make any effect on anyone if you’ll be gone from this world at that moment, cause you’re single, and you will not leave anyone behind…Well, I completely disagree.
    You made a huge impact on everyone listening to you, and you have no idea how you made someone’s spirit lift up everytime they listen to you. I am working abroad, and heck, everyone knows how hard it is to live up each day without seeing your family and loved ones. But just listening to you guys really makes me feel home and forget whatever worries that I have (OMG, I am crying now). Ok, I think that’s a long comment already. Thanks Delle. I know its a long shot, but I hope that you’ll be in the airwaves forever. 🙂

    Comment by AJ — May 28, 2009 @ 2:49 pm | Reply

    • hi AJ….that was heartfelt. and i appreciate you taking time out to say your piece. don’t cry na…everything will be alright…that’s what i tell myself when things are not looking up. but yeah, i think you’re right i may not fully know the extent of how my work affects people who listen to us…but now after your message maybe i have a small idea! and it lifts my spirit up!

      Comment by delamar — May 28, 2009 @ 7:48 pm | Reply

  114. “Kinuha o binawi sayo ni God ang isang bagay mula sa iyong mga kamay hindi upang pahirapan ka, palungkutin, pag isipin, o khit para maalala mo sya. PInabitawan nya lng ang hawak mo para mahawakan ang tao na matagal na niyang pinaplano para sayo” – well, pinaniniwalaan ko to. ^_^. You are single not because of fate, but because you chose to be single. – my mom.

    Comment by BONG — June 1, 2009 @ 11:42 am | Reply

  115. I totally feel you. this entry made me cry. i sometimes lose hope, worrying and wondering what if no one ever comes… =(

    Comment by MaeLoterte — June 4, 2009 @ 8:52 am | Reply

  116. Seek and ye shall find, ask and it will be given, knock and it shall be opened…

    But you should know what to seek, know who to ask, and knock at the right door…

    Comment by broken tiger — June 4, 2009 @ 4:04 pm | Reply

  117. soo true. ^_^ Probably God’s still busy writing the best love story for us single ladies. ^_^

    Comment by Arisa — June 8, 2009 @ 7:02 am | Reply

  118. Haaayy dell nakakarelate ako :(. The feeling of you want somebody to hug you when you feel that your tired of fighting over yourself, of fighting the loneliness. I know I’m too young to say this, but still I feel the same way. This is the first time I have been in love *I can now distiguished fling from love*, and it ended painfully. Kahitna sabihin kong may magmamahal pa din sa akin, I am still frightened of the fact that the next would not be happily ever after again :(. Well, I am trying to look on the brighter side. I am just thinking, “Hey, who needs frog anyways. What I need is my prince and not a frog.”

    Comment by Kissy — June 8, 2009 @ 6:51 pm | Reply

    • it’s so nice to read your comment. thank you for your honesty, i really appreciate it. tell ya what, next time i have a love experience i will blog about it and i will wait for your comment again, ok?

      Comment by delamar — June 9, 2009 @ 8:49 pm | Reply

  119. i know this comment may be long overdue but can i just say— i sooo know how it feels and it’s the same situation that i am in right now. =(

    this is just soooo true.

    Comment by chechemarquez — June 10, 2009 @ 4:30 pm | Reply

    • lol… i know, rrrrright?

      Comment by delamar — June 11, 2009 @ 2:03 pm | Reply

  120. hey delle! ngayon lang ako nag lakas ng loob to comment on your post kasi..wala lang. shyness! haha..

    anyways, i’m sure dadating din yan. arent you aware of how much of a great lady you are? ask chico kaya. hehe

    i myself have been single for 4 years now, and get this, isa pa lang nagiging bf ko ha…delle, dont be too sad about being single kasi, alam mo, everytime i think about you being single, parang naiisip ko, it’s not really that bad. i’m too young to be comparing myself and my experiences sayo pero somehow, it makes me think that when i reach your age, and still be single, i need not be complaining…kasi, ikaw nga naging happy at that stage eeh, diba? in God’s will, we will be given what we deserve….pero just i case di yung mangyari sakin, i think i have the perfect “chico” in mind to stay with me as a friend…i just hope i will have the perfect job for me, just like you do. hehehe.

    more power to rx and morning rush.

    i’ve been a silent rusher eversince i was in elementary.

    you guys rock.

    Comment by doughna — June 11, 2009 @ 2:15 pm | Reply

  121. hi delle,

    i like your blog, first timer baga! and this particular topic. medyo sobra na gasgas yung “can relate to you” line… never give up. when you least expect it, your turn will come.

    Comment by etc — June 14, 2009 @ 6:37 pm | Reply

  122. Hindi kita personal na kilala pero i have to say na isa ka sa mga pinaka-interesting and inspiring na babae na nakilala ko. Sure na may reason kung bakit single ka parin and time will tell kung kailan mo siya mahahanap. Sa lahat ng friends ko na nasa situation mo dati isa lang ang sinasabi ko: “Kung kailangan mo talaga ng “partner” magkakaroon ka”.

    Comment by Jan Gabriel Caparas — June 16, 2009 @ 6:38 pm | Reply

  123. kelan birthday mo del? oct 14 din ba? 🙂

    Comment by James — June 17, 2009 @ 1:04 pm | Reply

  124. grabe! this so true after being with guy for so long and then we parted ways i don’t know if i’ll be brave enough to fall in love again but life goes on…and i’ll enjoy being single like you do but i hope everyone of us will one day find our happy endings.

    Comment by kincaid — June 19, 2009 @ 8:44 am | Reply

  125. trying to pass time, i came by on a flick “he’s not that into you” yesterday. if you’ve watched it, you’ll get my drift…

    all i have to say is in the last few scenes just before the credits.;)

    Comment by bluesteel14 — June 25, 2009 @ 10:53 am | Reply

  126. im now 27 and a certified NBSB (no boyfriend since birth).. sometimes I wonder if I would really be single my wholelife ..loneliness attacks frequently but then I realize I have so many things in my life now that I should be grateful for… I just need to accept it and enjoy.. Its not bad being single ..kainis lang minsan …

    Comment by katemulder — July 10, 2009 @ 5:42 pm | Reply

  127. im a fan of yours,you inspired me of being single,if we had a problem or scared to get in into a relationship what more on how to get out!

    Comment by sally — July 25, 2009 @ 11:30 am | Reply

  128. This is very lovely written delle..I can so relate.

    Comment by sannatotz — August 16, 2009 @ 3:28 am | Reply

  129. totally get you…. being 24 and single i know you’ll say im pretty young compared to you but seeing my friends and cousins married with babies they always seem to tell me youre old still single!

    i just became single again almost 2 months now but i feel so alone…. was engaged already but then some things were exposed heheh i guess thats a good thing…. it will come, when its the right time according to His plan… He knows whats best for us we should have faith…. niceyfemme.wordpress.com

    p.s. like you im new with blogging too… lets hold each other’s hand through this… im an idiot with this too… so outdated

    Comment by niceyfemme — August 30, 2009 @ 2:57 pm | Reply

  130. hi del!
    i dunno if you’re gonna read this, kse i noticed the last entry in this thread is like 3 months ago. but well, this is late bec i just recently re-discovered rx and your top 10…well, i can;t listen to it even online streaming but i download the podcast from blueritz.so anyways, i feel that i relate to you guys because we’re almost magka-age…. i think i’m older by a few months lang…and perhaps status is the same as you…single…looving it and also hating it….mostly for me, its a freedom issue…i don’t want to answer to someone every so often…but sometimes, it feels nice to have someone check what’s up with you. anyways, that’s my two cents worth! keep up the good work….kahit nagmumukhang tanga ang mga listeners ninyong naka-earplugs and stuff!

    Comment by wickedsensei — September 11, 2009 @ 12:30 am | Reply

  131. Hi Delle, i can so relate… single… i know how it feels. but still happy.

    Comment by Almostlover — September 16, 2009 @ 8:49 am | Reply

  132. nicely written ms. delle. i sometimes feel like this as well.

    Comment by kaoru_hyung — October 3, 2009 @ 9:05 am | Reply

  133. nicely written, ms. delle. i sometimes feel this way too.

    Comment by kaoru_hyung — October 3, 2009 @ 9:07 am | Reply

  134. re: so real, so virtual + tsaka itong sulat mong ito kaibigan….i knw u understand movies much more than u do chinese cuisine i mean who does? (teka meron nga bang sense yung sinabi ko?) point is (kung meron nga): quote from tv series SHOGUN hope uv seen it…”TOMORROW DOES NOT EXIST”…I believe Here and Now is where ul find that nothing’s virtual than what u decide what to do with your everyday miss.

    man iv always wanted to speak to you and chico in person about so many things lalo na noon na magulong magulo utak ko but i guess it never happened but just to let you know….hindi nyo lang alam malaki naitulong nyo sa akin noon…kung tumama lang ako ng lotto dito sa england pag-aralin ko uli kayo ni chico kahit 5 kurso sabay sabay hehe….may u always be safe and well…yung happiness mo u should b d one to decide (choose to love)thare is no greater risk WORTH DOING than choosing to love…who? dami dyan miss.. ikaw naman…all d best

    Comment by jojo — October 4, 2009 @ 3:19 am | Reply

  135. hayst… so real!

    Comment by emz — October 7, 2009 @ 3:26 pm | Reply

  136. they say, good comes to those who waits..your prince will come someday..then you will have your happy ever after..

    god bless!

    Comment by Sai — October 22, 2009 @ 4:27 pm | Reply

  137. del, i feel for you… single ladies think alike

    Comment by SUNshine — June 7, 2011 @ 8:51 pm | Reply

  138. i know this is late pero i just wanted to share my penny-worth thought
    i just recently tripped onto ur blog, but i’ve been a rusher for so long… i thank u for this confession, becoz not only u, del, confessed but all those single ladies in every corner of this world… ‘single’ is my middle name, your words are also my words… and i thank all those who replied and admit to have the same ‘sentiments’ and for those who gave their advise, they gave me hope… again, a big thank you.
    Godbless

    Comment by SUNshine — June 7, 2011 @ 9:36 pm | Reply


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